1. Set profiles to private and adjust security settings on applications
2. Remove geotagging (location setting)
3. Install a pop-up blocker or other anti-virus software to block and monitor content
4. Use child versions of social media applications first, such as Messenger Kids
5. Slowly increase your teen’s exposure to social media applications over time to increase independence while maintaining parent involvement

1. Familiarize yourself with the applications or websites your teen is interested in
2. Plan the topics you want to discuss. Examples include:
   • Personal information
   • Appropriate topics to discuss online
   • Appropriate online behaviors, such as liking, sharing, commenting, videos
   • Safety concerns (e.g., fake profiles, meeting in person)
   • Bullying and cyber stalking
   • When and how to respond to negative comments (e.g., blocking, retaliating)
   • Money and gaming
   • Tip: include your teen in the planning process if possible
3. Find a neutral time and space to discuss the topic with your teen
4. Ask your teen open ended questions to encourage their involvement (e.g., What would you do? When should you _____?)
5. Confirm their understanding by making summarizing statements
6. Aim to keep conversations short and positive to encourage future discussions
7. Give your teen an opportunity to practice through gradual exposure to social media

What should I do if my teen is exposed to inappropriate material on social media?

• Discuss the dangers of visiting inappropriate sites
• Set limits of what is appropriate or inappropriate
• Teach your teen about illegal content and encourage disclosure to an adult

What should I do if my teen is being cyber bullied?

• Teach your teen to identify bullying and block “friends” on social networking sites
• Encourage your teen to seek out help from a trusted adult

How do I teach my teen about predators on the internet?

• Agree upon an online safety checklist with your teen
• Encourage your teen to identify red flags on the checklist and speak with a familiar adult

I’m afraid my teen will become fixated on games or social networking sites. What should I do?

• Set clear limits on internet (e.g., use a timer)
• Encourage technology or computer use in the same room as an adult